Exclusive-use weddings
The whole house is yours
A Georgian manor in the English countryside, kept for one wedding a day and never more than 100 guests. From getting ready to the last dance, nobody else checks in.
- Up to 100 guests
- In-house kitchen
- Ceremony to evening party
- Dogs welcome
Exclusive use
What exclusive use actually means
Plenty of venues use the phrase loosely. At Ashden it means the house is closed to everyone but you and your guests, from the morning until the last song.
The whole manor
The ceremony room, the Georgian dining room and a private dressing room. All of it yours for the day.
The gardens
Every lawn and path, for drinks, photographs, and a quiet five minutes for the two of you.
Nobody else checking in
No other wedding that day, no hotel guests in the corridors, no strangers at the bar.
The dog, too
Ashden is pet-friendly, so whoever counts as family gets an invitation.
Not a hotel
How is this different from a nice hotel?
A good hotel can host a lovely wedding. You’re just sharing it with everyone else staying the night.
| At a hotel | At Ashden |
|---|---|
| Other guests at breakfast, in the bar and on the lawn | Only the people you invited, all day |
| Your wedding fitted in around other bookings | One wedding a day, and it’s yours |
| A banqueting menu from the events pack | A menu planned with the kitchen that cooks it |
| Everyone moved to a function suite for the evening | Ceremony, dinner and dancing in the same house |
Why 100
Why we stop at a hundred
A lot of couples ask whether 100 guests is enough. We think it’s the best number there is.
A hundred guests fit around the tables in one dining room, so nobody is seated in an overflow room or watching the speeches from the back of a ballroom. It’s few enough that you’ll actually talk to everyone, and plenty to fill a dance floor.
If your list runs well past 100, we’re probably not the place, and we’d rather tell you now.
- 100
- guests at most
- 1
- wedding a day
- 1
- dining room, everyone in it
In-house kitchen
Food is a big part of what we do
The food is cooked here, in the house, by our own kitchen. There’s no outside caterer to brief, and no menu chosen by number from a banqueting pack.
You plan the food with the people who’ll cook it: canapés on the lawn, a long dinner in the dining room, something later to keep the dancing going. It’s how your guests will remember being looked after.
The day
From getting ready to the last dance
Elegant doesn’t have to mean stiff. It’s a house, not a hotel, so it feels like a party at someone’s home: done properly, and relaxed enough that the shoes come off before midnight.
Morning
The dressing room
Get ready in a private dressing room in the house, with space for your people, a bottle open, and nobody knocking to say they need the room back.
Ceremony
The ceremony room
You marry indoors, in the ceremony room, so the English weather can do as it pleases.
Afternoon
The gardens
Drinks on the lawn while your guests wander the gardens and your photographer finds the light.
Dinner
The dining room
Every guest in one room, at one dinner, cooked in the house.
Evening
The party
Same house, lights down. No moving everyone to a function suite, and nobody waiting for the room.
Guide price
A number, before you visit
You shouldn’t have to book a tour to find out whether a venue is in budget. Here’s where a wedding at Ashden starts, and what’s yours on the day.
Your own quote will depend on your date, your guest numbers and your menu. Tell us those and we’ll send you a figure.
Exclusive-use wedding day
From £to be confirmed
- The manor, gardens and dining room to yourselves
- Indoor ceremony room
- Private dressing room
- Food cooked by our in-house kitchen
- Ceremony through to the evening party
- Up to 100 guests, dogs welcome
Placeholder: the brief doesn’t include prices, so the guide figure is left for Ashden Manor to confirm.
Enquire
Come and see it
Photographs only go so far. Tell us a little about your plans and we’ll arrange a time for you to walk round the house and gardens.
